Sea Change: Problems
Filed under: CATReloaded, college, dreams, in.words, information.technology, miscellaneous
Tags: problems, Sea Change
No, it’s not related to WWW, it’s related by me..
I have been thinking in writing such post for whole 5 days, because I was trying to gather all sides in front of my eyes.
In the last week, I felt a lot of bad stuff happening to me, realizing how much troubles I’m involved in with myself and with my life. When I finally started to see the whole thing, I found myself in a “DISASTER“. I will explain.
- College
- Work
- Weight
- Spiritually
- Time Management
- Miscellaneous Problems
This is the MAJOR problem I’m facing. I’m a college student, since preparatory school I have been dreaming to be an Engineer, a Computer Engineer, and I thought that my dream will be achieved with being an Engineering Student, which was a wrong idea. Yeah, Engineering, the faculty really gives us a very good chance to “MEMORIZE” information about subjects. It creates no chance for creativity, although this aspect has been adopted by some Professors and tutors in the college nowadays, one of them is Prof.Eng.Hesham Arafat and some other tutors like Eng.Mahmoud Badawy. They wanna do something, but students really get used of “MEMORIZING” which was the fault of other Profs.
Again, I’m a student, this is a problem, a big problem, cause I should do some stuff that I really hate, like..Studying!, attending Sections and Lectures, doing some reports using my “MEMORIZING” skill, and killing my creativity in other stuff I like (Development for example, learning something new?!). The problem comes when I found that Have attended 3 sections from the first day in the semester, I think 5 lectures.. ONLY!!!!!! :wtf: Yes, I swear that I dunnu how some professors look like. And by chance, I knew the tutor of the Control Subject yesterday. So that’s a problem, our grades in all our subjects are determined in someway in which attendance is evaluated too, so?!..
I have no problems concerning my work except that I’m workaholic, I love my work, I adore my work, code is poetry, they always say, and I adore writing, tweaking and hacking poetry. I forget myself when I start hacking some code, this is something that can be considered as a problem when it comes to the fact of being a Student, because it HUGELY affects my study.
Another thing, is that I wanna learn a lot of stuff, new stuff, which will REALLY open some new paths for me, and help me creating and forming my Career Path. In the same time, I have to work, I love when I buy something new from my work – a laptop or just a can!! -. So this really create another problem that I HATE!!..
I have good relationships, contacts and work offers here and there – Locally, and abroad -, but accepting any, will it be good for me now?! Or shall I concentrate on my studies now?! which will create a problem “lack of resources”, which is really a BIG problem, for someone in my situation.
I have really a lot of aliases?! to the term “Work” in my life: my work, web development, depiak, cat, courses, technical support.
Considering MAJOR problems, we have to also look at quiet minor ones. I’m Fat, and I know that. I have to lose almost 10-15 KILOS! Every time I start a weight loss program, I just don’t complete, I just stop to drink some juice or to eat a Sandwich or in reverse eat nothing at all till I feel dizziness. That’s will I know, and I have to work more on mine.
I’m a Muslim thanks ALLAH, but I have to get more into Islam, I BELIEVE in ALLAH, pray, fast and do some stuff that Islam encourages us to do. But I don’t read Qur’an everyday for example, and I consider this as a problem. I dunnu about “Sonna” or “Tafser” so much and this is a problem. I have to widen my knowledge about my Religion, it’s a way to make Allah forgive some of my misdeeds. I believe this is one of the MAJOR problems.
I said that I wanna learn some new stuff, add to this enhancing my soft skills. I need to enhance my Presentation Skills – which I believe, it has been better after the PHP course and Web 3.0 session -, Communication Skills, and Time Management. My day is 24 hours, distributed in a very STRANGE way, some times I sleep for 10 hours, and other times for just 3!! sometimes I work for half an hour and other times for 16!!! That’s not right at all, and I think the solution of most of my problems depends on this one, “Time Management”. This when solved will solve other problems in a very good way, I think. So consider this one, MAJOR problem.
These kind of problems really vary from one and another, and we dunnu when will one of them appear or if there will be any through a day, but we are sure that there will be one day. In another point of view, some of the above problems, might lead to such Miscellaneous Problems, but I still consider them minor problems.
Shakespeare obviously meant that the transformation of the body of Ferdinand’s father was made by the sea, but we have come to refer to a sea change as being a profound transformation caused by any agency.
So, in the next coming days, I will be having what I will call Sea Change. – Calling stuff with such terms, really a technique I realized in a friend of mine, who really calls everything with something like *******ation and ******ious to fascinate the audience so they think he talks in a very important topic. It’s a working technique, although I dun like how he apply it. -
In my next post, I will explain more in details, and I will try to put solutions for all these problems.








Rabena me3ak ya bingo :neutral:
:roll: :roll: :roll:
Allah ye5alek ya ebny
سلام عليكم ازيك يابينجو؟
انا قرأت البوست اول ماحطيته سريعا بس لقيت انه محتاج كلام كتير فقلت اما افضى بص ياسيدى
لازم نتفق الاول اننا دلوقتى الحمدلله فى سن صغير وكون انك تحس بالمشاكل دى دلوقتى زى ماحنا بنعانى من اغلبها ده شىء جميل طبعا افضل ماتحسها متأخر برغم كمية المشاكل الى انت بتحكى عنها ويمكن اغلبنا مشترك فيها وانا منهم بس اهم حاجة انت عملتها
انك حددت المشاكل ودى الخطوة الاولى لحلها
الخطوة التانية ايه بقا ؟؟؟
انك تحاول تشوف هتحلها ازاى انا هقلك بعمل اييه
بجيب ورقة واقسمها اربع اركان الى انا مقتنعه بيهم ديما
جزء روحانى وعقلى واجتماعى ورياضى
وببدأ اكتب كل حلول المشاكل واحطها تحت العناوين الى فى دماغى بحب خطوات كده محدده احاول امشى فيها
عارف لو مفيش فى دماغك غير هدف واحد لمشكله ما وواظبت عليه سنننننه مممثلااا افضل انك تطلع ملييون حل ومتنفزش حاجة
فحاول بجد دلوقتى اكتب الى انت عايز تعمله مش المشكله لا ازاى تحلها ايه الحلول الى انت شايفها اخترع جداول عايز تطبق السنة مثلا خد كل شهر سنة وطبقها طول الشهر وهكذا المهم
تحدد وتكتب الى انت عايزة الجداول مفيده جدا لاى حاجة بجد
المواظبه والصبر والرفق مع نفسك يعنى متتضايقشش اوى لو الدنيا مظبطتش فى الاول وهتلاقى كسل اوقات او تراكم او او المهم واااااااااااظب وصدقنى عن تجربه هتلاقى الدنيا بتمشى وانت هتتبسط اما تحس انك انجزت حاجة ولو بسيطه زى قراءة كتاب محدد مثلا وطول مانت بتابع نفسك ان شاء الله هتوصل للى انت عايزة
ربنا يوفقك ويكرمك :smile:
HI, BINGO
WISH YOU ARE BETTER NOW
FIRSTLY: ABOUT FACULTY I THINK WE ALL SUFFER FROM THE SAME PROBLEM , BUT YOU KNOW WE HAVE TO ADAPT TO OUR FACT EVEN IT WASN’T PERFECT ,SURE WE IMGINED THAT WHEN WE JOIN ENGINEERING FACULTY WE WILL DEPEND ON THINKING&CREATIVITY ALL THE TIME AND WE WIIL NOT STUDY IT’S ENOUGH TO MAKE PROJECTS TO LEARN AND ALL OTHER DREAMS THAT YOU KNOW , BUT THE REAL WORLD WASN’T LIKE THAT ,BUT WHAT SHOULD WE DO ?I THINK NOW AT LEAST WE SHOULD ACCEPT IT AND DO LETTLE BEST TO MEMORIZE UNTIL WE GRADUATE, YOU KNOW FAT ELKETEER MOSH BA2Y ELA EL2LEL , SO PLZ BE PATIENT 4 ANOTHER YEAR ISA, AND TRY TO ATTEND MORE LECTURE AS U KNOW THIS YEAR WE TAKE 2 LECTURE ONLY :???: .
ABOUT YOUR RELATOINSHIP WITH GOD: BELIVE ME , LW NWET BEGAT ENK T2RB MN RABENA WE BZLT MGHOT BSET 3HAN T2RB MNH ,RABENA HYS3DK WE HYNOR LK ELTARE2 LEH
ABOUT Time Management: I CANN’T HELP YOU BECAUSE I SUFFER FROM THE SAME PROBLEM :shock: :oops:
PLZ BINGO BE POSITIVE , BELIEVE THAT GOD WILL HELP U ISA AND BE SURE THAT YOU’RE A GOOD PERSON THAT REPRESENT A GOOD EXAMPLE OF SUCCESS 4 US
WISH GOD HELP &BLESS U :smile:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm OK
Belnesba llmashakel elly enta 2oltaha de kolaha , mo3zam elnas bet3any mnha
ana mathalan tab3an 3andy moshkelet elkoleya de ay na3am ba7dar bs ela wa2tena haza ma3rafsh wala kelma fe ay mada wal7amdollah :mrgreen:
w mawdoo3 elwaight bardo 3andy nafs elmoshkela :smile:
bs ana mesh shayfa aslan en de mashakel :grin:
begad law a3adt te2ol ana 3andy moshkela kaza w kaza w kaza mesh hate7′las :???:
so, hanady 2alet 7l kowayes , w isa eman gambak w yarab teshaga3o ba3d w teb2o a7san
wana mn ne7yety ha7awel a3mel ay 7aga 7ata walaw kanet baseta zai el7agat elly ana bawaza3ha de -da belnesba l mawdo3 alta2arob mn rabna- w elly ana lama bagy adehalko mabterdosh :evil: :!:
Salamv :smile:
السلام عليكم
بجد انا اتصدمت لما قرأت الكلام دا.. الموضوع كبير بجد .
أنا حسيت ان أنا اللي كاتب الكلام دا … وبصراحة أنا مكنتش متوقع انك يا ابراهيم عندك المشاكل دي كلها ,, أمال أنا هعمل ايه ؟
المهم بالنسبة للكلية انا خلاص معدش يهمنى منها غير الورقة اللي هناخدها بعد المشروع ( يامسهل!!) .. انا مش بقول كده عشان احبطك لاسامح الله ,, بس فعلا الظاهر ان مفيش امل من الكلية والحل الوحيد انك تبتدي بنفسك انت .
المشكلة انك لو حاولت تصلح حاجة في وسط الكلية هتلاقي ألف واحد يهد اللي انت عملته .كله حفظ زي مانت شايف .
البرمجة بتتحفظ ياعالم !!
أنا بجد محتار في الموضوع دا ,, بقالي أربع سنين في الدوامة دي ومش عارف أخرج منها .
انا مش هتكلم عن المشاكل التانية ,, ﻷني بصراحة شايفة قابلة للحل ,, بالاضافة ﻷنها تعتبر ثانوية -ألى حد ما – انما مشكلة الكلية فعلا اللي مهمة جدا كون وظيفتك في البطاقة “طالب”. هي دي المشكلة .
ومتزعلش يا ابراهيم من الوزن انت مش تخين قوي يعني :grin: (
ربنا يوفقك ويهديك ويهدينا للطريق المستقيم
Guys..You are really GREAT!..I didn’t even imagine that I will receive all these comments soon.
@HoNdA: I accept every word you have said, especially when you said:
and Thanks Allah I really started to think about a solution, since I wrote the post, I started to think about “EVERY” word I wrote and how to solve them out. In my next post, I will explain more as I have said, and it will be my pleasure to know your opinion, so keep watching
@eng_emy: THANKS for all your sweet words, bgd, fe3lan they affected me, soon you will know the steps I took to apply the Sea Change plan, and number one was this post; “Defining Problems”
Thanks for passing by, makontesh a3raf enek beteegy hena
@marwa: tayeb leeh mosh nesa3ed ba3d tayeb, law mosh fahma 7aga, 2ooli le eng_emy mathalan w heya tesa3dek, bgd ana nawy abtedy this campaign, 7aga shabah study groups keda, talama feena nas bete7dar w mosh betefham, w nas la2a, tayeb nebtedy nesa3ed ba3d.
2nd, wallahi howa mosh mawdo3 benrfod, ana bas mafhemtesh heya kanet eh, w kan maktob 3aleha el so3odeya bayen, fa 2olt dah e3lan le maktaba henak, eh elli gabo hena. ahhh, now I got it, dah mn 3and babaki? tayeb hateh ma3lesh w ha2rah
But for Eman in my life, with my Mother, I dunnu how I was supposed to be now..
@Moustafa: Enta ba2a bgd elli se3ebt 3alaya, I have always seen you as the one who studies his lessons, attend his lectures and sections, and I really dunnu enta leeh bet2ol el kalam dah el ayam di, keda dah ma3nah en fi 7aga 3′alat. Law yenfa3, share it with us, 3ala shan net3lam menak.
THIS IS A DISASTER! Students think now that they have studied C# or JAVA, and they don’t know that it has no relation with the outside market!
Thanks for your prayers All, AMIN!
Summing up, it seems that the college problem, is common between all of us guys, so do you have any solutions?! you can share them here, I dun mind at all. What do you think of the study groups idea?! Fel maktaba 3andena fel college, elli ye3raf 7ad mohtam bel IT w fi nafs el wa2t ma3ana fel dof3a w 7abeb enno yesharek dah yeb2a kowies awy.
ah btw, ana badawar 3ala nas yeb2o ma3aya ana w Eman fi mashro3 Dr.3ali, ana momken asa3ed gamed gedan, bas ana fe3lan 7abeb el nas yet3alemo 7aga, wana shayef enni momken afedko b 7aga, falli 7abeb yesharek ye2oli..ana kaman momken asa3ed fi mashare3 nas tanya law el nas me7taga 7aga, dah 3′eer mine tab3an.
bel nesba lel mashakel el tanya, fana ebtadet awsal le shwyet 7lool keda gat fi dema3′y, akeed ha2oloko 3aleha.
THANKS ALL!
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